Sunday, September 9, 2007

Relationships

How is it like to get entangled in a new relationship? Especially when its bound to be a life long relationship. In my opinion it’s a menacing thought.
There are a few relationships we get entwined with right from our very early years. Apparently we don’t question those relations. Most of us simply accept it whether we like it or not. But the one’s we get along with in the later years are a matter of concern. We spend time in analyzing as to whether it would rightly suit our needs or not. Our decisions might not always prove to be fruitful but yet we persistantly accept new people as we enter through every phase of our lives. The tree of knitted known one’s grows and grows.

At one point in time we need to make certain decisions that has to be stable, that cannot be easily erasable and adhere onto a kind of lifestyle for a presumably long time. This being the most critical stage, most of them do not realize its sanctity and end up taking hasty decisions. A second chance is not a very clever idea for few aspects of life. It better be one and we better make a right choice then. Its not the question of facing the society about having made a not so very right choice but its about the mental agony one has to undergo to make a correction. Some of them even end up not correcting the situation for the fear of facing the harsh consequences.

Its impossible to give an ISI certification to any relationship. It can only be tangiblized by certain attributes. And we blindly believe they are genuine. Its such a complicated mess!